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WILL YOU MARRY A NON - VIRGIN?


AS I LOOK AROUND, LOOKING FOR SOMETHING TO WRITE, I READ AN ARTICLE THAT CAUGHT MY ATTENTION,  IT SAYS, "WILL YOU MARRY A NON-VIRGIN?" 

FROM RELIGIOUS PERSPECTIVE WHERE I CAME FROM IT IS TABOO OR FORBIDDEN TO MARRY A NON-VIRGIN THAT IS THE REASON WHY MOST MEMBERS OF DEVOUT CATHOLICS AND REFORMED CHURCHES ARE EX-COMMUNICATED IF CAUGHT HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH SOMEONE PRIOR TO MARRIAGE.

THE CULTURES OF THE CIVILIZED SOCIETY HAS BEEN PRESERVED  EVEN IN THIS MODERN TIMES OF OURS. THAT VIRGINITY IS ALWAYS EQUATED WITH GOODNESS AND VIRTUE. THE ACT OF PRESERVING YOURSELF INTACT AND UN-BLEMISH FOR THE ONE YOU MARRY PROVES THAT YOU ARE A PERSON IN GOOD REPUTE AND UPBRINGING.

AS TIME WENT ON CULTURES MELT DOWN, IDEAS ARE CHANGING INTO DIFFERENT DIRECTIONS, SOME BELIEVE IT IS NO LONGER IMPORTANT.

EVERY WEEK COUNCILOR JULIENNE ALYSON RAE V. MEDALLA, A GRADUATE OF  A CERTIFIED CATHOLIC UNIVERSITY, FOUNDED BY DEVOUT CATHOLIC MISSIONIORIES THE DE LA SALLE BROTHERS AND HER FATHER FORMER COUNCILOR RAMON "  TOTO" MEDALLA SPONSORED A COUNTLESS FREE MASS WEDDING PROGRAM.

DURING MY TIME AS AN OFFICIATING MINISTER, WE WEDDED IF I MAY USE THIS TERM MORE OR LESS SIXTY THOUSAND (60,000) COUPLES.

FILIPINOS, WHO BOAST TO BE THE ONLY CATHOLIC NATION IN ASIA DETERIORATED AND BELIEVE THAT SEXUAL PAST OF THEIR PARTNER IS INCONSEQUENTIAL AND NOT A BIG ISSUE IN THEIR SUPPOSED MARRIAGE.

NOW. TELL ME STRAIGHT FROM MY EYES, WILL YOU MARRY A NON-VIRGIN?  AND WHY? AND WHY NOT?

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