"PAY LESS ATTENTION..."

When I do something or say something I always think of how other people will say or react to it. Maybe I am afraid of what people may say about me. Yes, I pay much attention to what they say. This is the reason why I can't do something that I really want to do.

There are times that I feel bolder do and say some stupid things but you can count it in your fingers. I was so afraid to hurt other feelings and emotions. As much as possible I remain calm and diplomatic.

Some observation from my experience is that other people don't care what they do or say and I found myself victim of their harsh words and nonconstructive criticism. I believe you experienced this too.

Here comes Yvonne Rice,  who  said,   ‎"Pay less attention to what people say and think about you and more attention to what you think and say , about yourself—this is the beginning of self-awareness and the doorway to your happiness."

If Yvonne is right by saying this, then the realization of what we want to be and all the things we need to do to be happy  lies within us not with them and no one can rob it from us.

Be yourself do what you want to say and do as long as it is the right way to say and do. By the way we cannot pleases other people all the time. Along the line, we can hear negative comments about us. 

Utmost do the things that pleases you and you will never regret doing it.