Wandering Blogger

                                                                    Trials and testings are facts of life. Life spins itself all year round. Sometimes, we are at the  bottom, but sometimes, we are on the top. Other takes the driver's seat, while some other takes the backseat. There are things we cannot control in life and we only pray that it will not come to us nor experience it. But trials spare no one. Whether we like it or not, we will be tried and tested. "We cannot always control what happens to us in this life, but we can control how we respond. Many struggles comes as a problems and pressures that sometimes cause pain. Others come as temptations, trials, and tribulations." - L. Lionel Kendrick.

Availability is an elusive word. The reason for this is that people wanted us to be with them in times they needed us the most. The truth is it is impossible to be with them at all times and worst, we failed to be with them when they needed us the most. There are factors to consider; one: is distance, two: is time, three: is our present activity, four: is money, and five: is alibis.

The mood will tell whether someone is in love or not. The song we sing describe what we feel inside. It is a form of communication that only lovers can understand.  The whisper of love turns out to be the most beautiful song our heart ever composed even without the lyrics its message is loud and clear and can be fully comprehended by someone who is in love.

Which is which, when friendship started love will not come into play but  when love ends, friendship started.  The demarcation line between love and friendship is very hard to identify.  We even mistaken friendship for love and love for friendship. There is a hairline difference between love and friendship. There are couples that they started their relationship as best friends but ended up as lovers. 

There is love that only last for a while, a love that never reach its full maturity, a love that easily fades away, even a fairy tale of love never end the way we like it.   We measured love differently and with our own biases based on our own understanding and personal experiences. Much based on what we feel what is right and imposed it on with our respective partner. Only few of us come out well being closely monitored 24 hours a day. There are times we want to spend our time alone without any intervention from someone, much more from our partner. This tendency is just a normal thing and must be understood by our partner. We do not want our movements or activities to be numbered. Sometimes, we feel better to be alone sitting on a couch or by just simply watching our favorite television program  without explaining why. Someone said, inviting someone you love to marry you is not the very kind thing to do, because you are dragging your beloved or forcing him/her to do

What we are afraid of? A question we need to ask ourselves. As humans, though we feel superior but at times, we feel inferior and afraid of so many things including our future and separation from our love ones, much more of death.  But why we are afraid? Knowing that in the first place, we just live here for only a short period of time. Today, we commemorate the "Day of the Dead" (ALL SOULS & ALL SAINTS DAY). And maybe, a few years from now, we are included in that commemoration. God says, "He will never leave us nor forsake ask" Vanishing from the presence of God is the most fearsome event in our lives.

Letting someone go is an option so difficult to decide whether it is work related or relational. But sometimes it is the best decision you need to do at hand for the interest of all concerned.  One of the most famous and often used expression of all times is the three words "I LOVE YOU." This phrase or expression is timeless and priceless. Somehow, we are not able to use it properly and distorted its meaning to serve our personal purpose. Loving someone does not mean possession. IMPORTED FROM THE HUFFPOST: 16 CHARACTERISTIC OF REAL LOVE (CAROL MORGAN) Love. It makes the world go ‘round, right? Well, at least that’s the how the saying goes. But is it true? It should be, but so many people confuse love with things like jealousy or possessiveness. True love isn’t either of those things. But these 16 things are. So here are the characteristics of REAL love: 1. Love means saying goodbye to expectations. Sure, we all want people to behave the way we wa

The wisest man who ever lived on earth, King Solomon was also the greatest lover of all time.  From the Biblical account, we will discover that King Solomon had seven hundred wives (700) and three hundred concubines, a total of one thousand (1000) wives. Song of Solomon 2:5 - "comfort me with apples for i am sick of Love." Many Biblical Scholars believed that this part of Scripture was written by King Solomon himself.

Love in any language can bridge the gap between people and nation in conflict with each other.  Love's counter part, Forgiveness is always waiting on the other side to complete the cycle of restoration.   Love in Any Language Sandi Patty Je t'aime Te amo Aishiteru Ani ohevet othka, I love you The sounds are all as different As the lands from which they came And though our words are all unique Our hearts are still the same Love in any language, straight from the heart Pulls us all together, never apart And once we learn to speak it, all the world will hear Love in any language, fluently spoken here We teach the young our differences Yet look how we're the same We love to laugh, to dream our dreams We know the sting of pain From Leningrad to Lexington The farmer loves his land And daddies all get misty-eyed To give their daughter's hand Oh, maybe when we realize How much there is to share

There are a lot of ways to make your husband feel like a King. And you must remember that you are his happiness. His life will never be complete without you. Therefore, your  goal is to simply look for the things that makes your husband happy. Your love will makes him feel like a King. Do you know that sex tops a man's list of Top Five (5) List? Yes! sex tops the list of his needs. If your husband usually initiate physical intimacy, change it up and start taking the lead. You need to take the first move more often. Show your love by hugging your husband. According to Psychologist , "Hugs brings smiles to faces and warmth to hearts. They are uplifting when you are down, encouraging when you are in the midst of challenges, and celebratory when you've reached your goal." Hugs strengthen husband and wife relationships and increase feelings of love, support and loyalty. By the way loving relationship don't just grow behind closed doors in the bedroom.

There are numerous occasions in our life that we fake our true feelings. We pretend that we are alright and everything was fine. To make it believable, we even smile. By doing so, people around us think that we are fine and sometimes we forgot that we are not. Someone said that behind a smile is a story we cannot understand. Robin Williams , the famous actor and comedian in his quotation said: " ALL IT TAKES IS A BEAUTIFUL SMILE TO HIDE AN INJURED SOUL AND THEY WILL NEVER NOTICE HOW BROKEN YOU REALLY ARE."

Former President Ferdinand Marcos died in Honolulu on the morning of September 28, 1989. He died at the age of 72. He ruled the Philippines for 20 years until he was ousted in 1986 EDSA Revolution. President Bush, praised Marcos graceful exit from power. By leaving the Philippines, according to him, Marcos, permitted the peaceful transition of the government to a popular democratic rule. Marcos sins and misdoings for the country was never been erased in the minds of the human right victims until this day. Maraming mga taon ang lumipas at ilang beses na nagpalit ng Pangulo ang ating bansa subalit hanggang sa ngayon ay hindi pa rin nabibigyan ng marang libing ang dating Pangulo ng Pilipinas na tinagurin ding, "Strong Man". Nais ng Pamilyang Marcos na mailibing ang kanilang "Patriarch" sa Libingan ng mga Bayani. Bagama't nais nang wakasan ng kasalukuyang Rodrigo Roa Duterte ang usaping ito sa kanyang pagpayag na ilibing na si dating Pangulong Ferdinan