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There is love that only last for a while, a love that never reach its full maturity, a love that easily fades away, even a fairy tale of love never end the way we like it.  

We measured love differently and with our own biases based on our own understanding and personal experiences. Much based on what we feel what is right and imposed it on with our respective partner.

Only few of us come out well being closely monitored 24 hours a day. There are times we want to spend our time alone without any intervention from someone, much more from our partner. This tendency is just a normal thing and must be understood by our partner. We do not want our movements or activities to be numbered. Sometimes, we feel better to be alone sitting on a couch or by just simply watching our favorite television program  without explaining why.

Someone said, inviting someone you love to marry you is not the very kind thing to do, because you are dragging your beloved or forcing him/her to do unpleasant and challenging things like meeting your parents, keeping the house clean and in order all the time, waiting for him/her to come home, preparing for food and rearing children.

We need to remember we never own one another and therefore on the daily basis, we need to earn each respect. At any given time and day, our partner may leave us. This will give us a sense of appreciation to appreciate one another knowing that we will only be together on a borrowed limited period of time.


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