Wandering Blogger

                                                                    Trials and testings are facts of life. Life spins itself all year round. Sometimes, we are at the  bottom, but sometimes, we are on the top. Other takes the driver's seat, while some other takes the backseat. There are things we cannot control in life and we only pray that it will not come to us nor experience it. But trials spare no one. Whether we like it or not, we will be tried and tested. "We cannot always control what happens to us in this life, but we can control how we respond. Many struggles comes as a problems and pressures that sometimes cause pain. Others come as temptations, trials, and tribulations." - L. Lionel Kendrick.

Availability is an elusive word. The reason for this is that people wanted us to be with them in times they needed us the most. The truth is it is impossible to be with them at all times and worst, we failed to be with them when they needed us the most. There are factors to consider; one: is distance, two: is time, three: is our present activity, four: is money, and five: is alibis.

The mood will tell whether someone is in love or not. The song we sing describe what we feel inside. It is a form of communication that only lovers can understand.  The whisper of love turns out to be the most beautiful song our heart ever composed even without the lyrics its message is loud and clear and can be fully comprehended by someone who is in love.

Which is which, when friendship started love will not come into play but  when love ends, friendship started.  The demarcation line between love and friendship is very hard to identify.  We even mistaken friendship for love and love for friendship. There is a hairline difference between love and friendship. There are couples that they started their relationship as best friends but ended up as lovers. 

There is love that only last for a while, a love that never reach its full maturity, a love that easily fades away, even a fairy tale of love never end the way we like it.   We measured love differently and with our own biases based on our own understanding and personal experiences. Much based on what we feel what is right and imposed it on with our respective partner. Only few of us come out well being closely monitored 24 hours a day. There are times we want to spend our time alone without any intervention from someone, much more from our partner. This tendency is just a normal thing and must be understood by our partner. We do not want our movements or activities to be numbered. Sometimes, we feel better to be alone sitting on a couch or by just simply watching our favorite television program  without explaining why. Someone said, inviting someone you love to marry you is not the very kind thing to do, because you are dragging your beloved or forcing him/her to do

What we are afraid of? A question we need to ask ourselves. As humans, though we feel superior but at times, we feel inferior and afraid of so many things including our future and separation from our love ones, much more of death.  But why we are afraid? Knowing that in the first place, we just live here for only a short period of time. Today, we commemorate the "Day of the Dead" (ALL SOULS & ALL SAINTS DAY). And maybe, a few years from now, we are included in that commemoration. God says, "He will never leave us nor forsake ask" Vanishing from the presence of God is the most fearsome event in our lives.